Spring Festival: Are you feeling the pressure to get married?

cecilia (China)

That is the question my mom always asks. "How long do you want to wait for? You are 30; it is time for getting married and starting a family." It is not that I don't want to get married yet. I haven't met the guy I really want to marry though. I wish that I could meet him now, but I shouldn't push it. My mom even wants to fix me up, but I simply reject her proposition. I want to pick the man I want. I understand that as you get older, your parents might worry about your marriage. I just want to slow things down.