玩消失還裝不認(rèn)識(shí)的“鬼閃”

閃人的方式有很多種，最奇葩的可能是這種：“鬼閃”（ghostlighting），不打招呼就消失，如果被找到就裝作不認(rèn)識(shí)，傷人不說(shuō)還弄得別人一頭霧水。

Ghostlighting refers to ceasing all communication with someone and then, when they attempt to contact you, pretending like you have no idea who they are or what they are talking about. It is a hybrid of ghosting and gaslighting.
“鬼閃”指的是終止和某人的一切聯(lián)系，如果對(duì)方試圖聯(lián)系自己，就假裝不認(rèn)識(shí)對(duì)方或不知道對(duì)方在說(shuō)什么。這個(gè)詞是ghosting（玩消失）和gaslighting（試圖去改變他人對(duì)現(xiàn)實(shí)的認(rèn)知，以實(shí)現(xiàn)改變他人的一種行為）的合成詞。

Example:

John: "Guys, did you hear what Christina did?"
約翰：你們聽(tīng)說(shuō)克里斯提娜做的事了嗎？

Catherine: "No, what?"
凱瑟琳：沒(méi)聽(tīng)說(shuō)，什么事？

John: "She was too chicken to quit her job, so she just didn't show up and then when her boss, Will, called her, she acted like she didn't know who he was!"
約翰：她沒(méi)膽子辭職，所以干脆就不來(lái)了，后來(lái)她老板威爾給她打電話時(shí)，她裝作根本不知道他是誰(shuí)！

Catherine: "Oh, wow, she's totally ghostlighting that dude, eh?"
凱瑟琳：哇哦，她還真是給老板來(lái)了個(gè)“鬼閃”啊。

（英文來(lái)源：Urban Dictionary 編輯：丹妮）