職場上的同事們都希望能在辦公室里獲得重視，從而得到提升和加薪。但并不是一味的引人注意就可以獲得重視和大家的尊敬，很多時候都要講究原則。

1. Know what you believe in and stick to it. Nothing loses other's respect quicker than inconsistency.
清楚并堅持自己的想法。左右搖擺會讓你在別人心目中的形象大打折扣。

2. Keep your distance. Be friendly but not over-familiar. Don't confide intimate details to your colleagues.
保持距離，友好卻不要太親近，不要向同事袒露太私人的生活細節。

3. Keep your business to yourself. Don't share all your problems. Even if you resolve them you'll have left the impression that you're indecisive or unable to cope with pressure.
自己的事情自己做，不要事無巨細都向同事請教。因為即使你已經解決了問題，你還是會給人優柔寡斷或無法面對壓力的不良印象。

4. Don't ask anyone to do anything you wouldn't do yourself.
連自己都不想做的事情就不要麻煩別人去做。

5. Communicate-simply and often.
經常與同事進行簡單的溝通。

6. Keep your eyes on the objective.
一直盯住你的目標。

7. Don't get drawn into colleagues' personal lives.
不要糾纏于同事的私人生活中。

8. Keep cool. Don't respond instantly or say yes to everything.
保持冷靜，對聽到的任何事情不要立刻表態。

9. Keep your head. A calm presence is an invaluable asset.
保持理智，鎮定是你工作制勝的法寶。

10. Be good at your job. Know that you're good. Self-respect is the key. It'll show up in the way people deal with you.
做好你的工作，相信自己能勝任。自信是關鍵，這也會影響到人們對你的態度。

11. Accept that you can't please all the people all the time-or even some of the people all of the time. 
承認這個事實：你不能總是讓所有的人滿意，甚至是總讓一部分人滿意都很難。