Gen Z's new rules on the dating game

New dynamics

Zhu noticed an interesting shift in dynamics with her boyfriend on the frisbee field since they started dating. While many couples enjoy playing side by side, Zhu and her boyfriend found that being on the same team could lead to minor conflicts and sometimes even arguments if they played together.

"I guess it's just easier to lash out at someone close to you," Zhu said. "But it's different when we play separately: we cheer for each other enthusiastically, and the one playing acts like a 'peacock', showing off fancy techniques to impress the other."

As for Yu, he and his girlfriend continue to spend most of their free time playing scripted murder games after they became a couple. However, Yu admitted that while he enjoys the game, it's still just make-believe. If he were to play matchmaker, he would probably choose something outdoors, such as camping or hiking.

"During these kinds of exploratory activities, you're likely to encounter small challenges or certain difficulties," Yu explained. "I think in these situations you can see their 'raw selves' and genuine responses while handling things."

Zhang and her husband have been married for over a year now. She mentioned that while the "classic dating trifecta" of movies and dinners might seem mundane to new couples, they still enjoy these activities. For them, watching movies and having dinners have become a part of daily life rather than something reserved for special date nights.

The two also engage in a variety of other activities together, from walking their dog and exercising to playing PlayStation 5 games at home.

"I believe every couple or couple-to-be has their own pace and dynamic that works for them," Zhang said. "While certain activities may kindle the spark in a relationship, what's most important is the sense of togetherness. As long as there is genuine affection between two people, any activity can help strengthen their bond."

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